🦄 Chip Uni
Lots of us here are programmers. What's your favorite programming language, and why?
🔮 Liv
Javascript, because I know how to make pretty much any browser thing I can think of with it. That said, I've been playing around with Python and C# lately and it's a lot of fun broadening my knowledge. C# in particular feels like a level up, which is satisfying.
🪐 Danilo
Do you think it's still worth trying? Or just quit the mainstream stuff?
🔮 Liv
I continue trying! But the pure moments are rare and the negatives are sometimes overwhelming. It's a solvable problem (prioritizing intimacy and word-of-mouth over megaphone social mechanics), but until someone actually builds the better thing... we have what we have.
🔮 Liv
Hmm... socialization, probably? How you're raised, the values you're taught, the cultural messaging you absorb. Maybe some innate stuff too, the kind of experiences your body is primed to respond positively and negatively toward.
🔮 Liv
Not directly, no. Feeling pleasure is the body's reward for fulfilling a need. Taking the need out of the picture is just us gaming the system. How you choose to game the system seems like a matter of values and opportunities.
🎣 Fish
what separates the needs from the musts for you?
🔮 Liv
Needs and musts are one, it's those wants that differ. And usually because the wants are... extracurricular? Above and beyond. More than any individual requires to live or is required to accomplish. For pleasure, basically.
Prince
do you ever fear that your drive blinds you?
🔮 Liv
Not really; I don't find drive to be self-sustaining, and that required effort means a constant reassessing of priorities. On that note: the definition of "getting what you want" will almost certainly evolve as you do.