😀 Tom
University? I don't know where you are or where you go, but do they have a counselling office? Sometimes it helps just to have someone to talk to who's been trained to listen. Also, when I went to college/university, I didn't give it 100% back then, now I wish I had.
Dorcas
College yes. I'm doubtful on being counseled since I don't buy encouraging lines that much, if that's what they'll do. I did make an effort on the first two years but I found myself detached after 4 years.